As we know, become a rich person is desirability of everyone. There is the difference among people, how the way to become a rich person. Almost everyone have a will become a rich people, but many obstacles that make them can not become a rich people.
Many factors that can head off them become a rich person, for example, lazy, negative thinking, and always focus to obstacle, giving up before trying. In fact, if we will be a success person, become a rich person we ought to try and try. Never say “I cannot”, he always says “I can”. There are many ways a rich person thinks and acts. A rich person makes added value, but a poor person does not makes it. A rich person has resourcefulness or ways and means, does not have many reason. A rich person has responsibility of his life, never blame the situation, another person, and fate. A rich person plays with money for win. A rich person always focus to chance not to obstacle. A rich person sees life with positive people and a success people. A rich person focus to wealth style (massive and passive income), is not focus to life style. The rich person makes money work hard for their selves, does not make their selves work hard for money. A rich person acts for fighting his fear, does not left his fear arrest them. A rich person will always learns, tries, and grows, never came to rest for learn just because he has known. A rich person has a big think. The rich person can straighten up their money properly. Become a rich person, not only try hard, but also pray to God. Because trade without pray, that will not happen. Conversely, pray without trade, that will not happen too.
I think to become a rich person that depends on our selves. If we have a will, we must try. We must have a will for reach our aspiration to become a reach person. Remember, have a will is not everything but life without will that impossible to have everything.
Smoke is one of causal factor of death. Smoke is dangerous for our health and our life. Many people in this world are smoker, they know how a danger cigarette for their health, but they as if do not care about that. Many reasons why smoking will make our life lose out.
First, smoking can damage our health. Many diseases will be suffering by smoker. For example, TBC, lung cancer, cancer of the uterus and especially they will suffer impotent, for the man. As it is, many people death just because of cigarette. Surprisingly, they unchanged to become a smoker, although they know what impact of smoking for their life and their health.
Second, I think presence of cigarette, they discussed their money. It same with they loaf away their money without result. Because of cigarette, they will lose of financial or lost their money and especially they will lose their life. Many people in our country, they say “We are poor person, we can not to be a rich person” but in fact, they always have enough money to buy some cigarette.How ironic it is.
The last, smoke can damage for around people. Substantively, passive’s smoker or nonsmoker more danger than smoker, because the nonsmoker sip fumes of cigarette. Fumes of cigarette are dangerous because that can go into our body and then can bit into our organ. The smoker do not think for their around people’s health. Just because their habit as a chain smoker, their around people should run the risk.
I think, let’s quit the smoking, and because that can damage our life, smoking can destruct our health, smoking will be accelerating death. Let’s keep our health, keep our life to be free of smoking.
When I followed seminar in Jakarta which was taken by Tung Desem Waringin, I felt that I got inspiration in my life. His words become inspiration and motivation for my life. And the other person, I get motivation and that become inspiration in my life from someone who is very famous, his name Robert Kiyosaki. I extracted to discuss about words which they said, because that can be inspiration in my life, that can change my thinking, and that can change my life.
Both of them, they have conviction that they can be a rich person. Start from Tung Desem Waringin, many words from him that can be inspiration in my life. He said about how the way we can be a rich person. As we know, become a rich person is desirability of everyone. There is the difference among people, how the way to become a rich person. Almost everyone have a will become a rich people, but many obstacles that make them can not become a rich people. Many factors that can head off them become a rich person, for example, lazy, negative thinking, always focus to obstacle, and giving up before trying. In fact, if we want to be a success person, we want become a rich person, we ought to try and try. Never say “I cannot”, but we must say “I can”.There are many ways a rich person thinks and acts. A rich person makes added value, but a poor person does not makes it. A rich person has resourcefulness (ways and means), does not have many reason. A rich person has responsibility of his life, never blame the situation, another person, and fate. A rich person plays with money for win, but the poor person plays with money for does not lose. A rich person always focus to chance not to obstacle. A rich person sees life with positive people and a success people. A rich person focus to wealth style (massive and passive income), is not focus to life style. The rich person makes money work hard for their selves, does not make their selves work hard for money. A rich person acts for fighting his fear, does not left his fear arrest them. A rich person will always learns, tries, and grows, never came to rest for learn just because he has known. A rich person has a big think. The rich person can straighten up their money properly. And Last, Robert Kiyosaki, many words from him that can be inspiration too. He explained what the rich teach their kids about money, that the poor and middle class do not. Many lesson from him that can be inspiration in my life.
First, the rich do not work for money. The poor and the middle class work for money but the rich have money work for them. I think more money will not solve the problem. Most people are given more money, they only get more debt. They think have much money can solve the problem. They think have much money can break of their fear, substantively that can not. Just know that it is fear which makes most people working at a job. The fear is being fired. The fear is not paying their bills. The fear is not having enough money. The fear of starting over. And then they work for money, most people become a slave to money. Learning how to have money work for us is a lifetime study. Most people go to college for four years and their education ends. And then they get a job, they go to work, get their paycheck. They think have more money can solve the problem. Few realize that the problem is their lack of financial education. We must avoid one of life’s biggest traps. For example, they feel the fear if they do not have money. Instead of confronting the fear, they react instead of thinking. They react emotionally and instead of using their heads. They react to their feeling, till unable think. They feel the fear, therefore they go to work and they hope that money will soothe their fear, but it does not. The fear has trapped them of working, earning money, working, earning money, they hope the fear will go away, but it does not.
Second, the rich person invents money. That mean we must have investment, for example, we have a house which can be contracted to other people. With it, we can invent money from our investment. Most people only know one solution: work hard, save, and borrow. They can not to increase their financial intelligence. If we want to be a rich person, we must creative to solve problem of financial. The single most powerful asset we have is our mind. If it is trained well, and make us think to have many investments, it can create wealth enormously in sign to be instant.
And the last, work to learn, do not work for money. Most workers never get ahead. They do what they have been thought to do: “Got a secure job”. Most workers focus to work for pay and benefits that reward them in the short term, but that is often disastrous in long time. They should to seek work for what they will learn; it is more than what they will get. We must know, what skill we want to acquire before choose a specific profession and before getting trapped in confront fear of life. Start from now, we must change our life.
When you change your thinking, you change your beliefs
When you change your beliefs, you change your expectation
When you change you expectation, you change your attitude
When you change your attitude, you change your behavior
When you change your behavior, you change your performance
When you change your performance, you change your destiny
When you change your destiny, YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE
gan...gue cuma pengen berbagi cerita tentang perjalanan hidup gue ke kalian..hitam putih gue rasain dalam true story ini.
berawal dari gue lulus SD..gue bner2 shock banget ketika gue denger ternyata mamah gue mau masukin gue ke pesantren. Gmana ga shock bgt, seorang cindy yang stylish abis, yang hidupnya penuh dengan keglamouran, yang selalu having fun bersama teman2, harus masuk ke pesantren yang katro abis, hidup yang penuh dengan aturan, dan yang terlintasdiotakguepesantrenituadalahpenjara.
sampai akhirnya dengan penuh terpaksa gue harus sekolah di pesantren selama 6 tahun..dan sialnya ternyata semua ketakutan yang gue bayangkan terjadi. hidup dan sekolah yang bnar2 penuh dengan peraturan.
pulang 1 bulan sekali
ga boleh ngeroko
ga boleh pacaran
klo semua itu dilanggar hukumannya cwo dibotak dan cewe wear orange's veil. therefore we called that THE HOLLY JAIL
tapi hari demi hari gue jalanin..3 bulan pertama gue terus-terusan nangis,,gue bner-bner blom bisa adaptasi dengan lingkungan yang ada. Sampai akhirnya gue nemuin seseorang yang bisa bkin gue bertahan selama 6 tahun di pesantren. RIZKY MULYADI itu nma lengkapnya, mungkin dia bisa lbih dikenal dengan nama AHONK. menjalin hubungan dari mulai kelas 1 SMP ampe sekarang....hhmm,,,mungkiin kalian bisa berkata "waw keren 6 tahun bertahan" tapi perlu kalian tua juga..ga gampang jalanin hubungan selama itu..bner-bner penuh cobaan dan rintangan. tapi kita ttep bertahan dengan keadaan yang ada sampai membawa kita pada kebahagiaan.
SMP n SMA masih dalam tempat dan lingkungan yang sama. hitam putih hidup gue rasain selama 6 taun itu. gue tinggal di asrama, dmna gue bner-bner bisa nemuin sosok seorang sahabat, bahkan bisa dibilang kita dah kaya kelarga. kemana2 bareng, tidur bareng, makan bareng, ketawa bareng, nangis bareng terkecuali mandi bareng ( hhaaa :D ). kekluargaan gue rasain disini, seakan gue punya keluarga baru yang bisa isi kekosongan hidup gue dri kehangatn keluarga gue yang jauh disana. saat gue sakit mereka dengan ikhlasnya ngurus gue, tanpa pamrih sedikitpun. Bnyak peristiwa yang kita alami..mulai dari kabur bareng, dan dhukum pun bareng2 di tengah lapangan, selalu berani untuk menentang sesuatu yang tidak wajar untuk diterapkan terhadap santri2 yang ada. menentang ustadz-ustadz yang memunyai pikiran yang sangat otoriter, dan ironisnya disaat kita mau menghadapi UN, kita harus dipermalukan didepan semua guru dan adik kelas (dijemur dilapangan seharian)hanya karna kita melawan ustadz yang berprilaku sangat otoriter, selalu merasa dirinya benar, padahal dia adalah cemoohan semua santri. WHAT THE HELL!!!!!
tak terasa 6 taun pun berlalu, kekluargaan yang terjalin dengan eratnya harus terpisah, karna kita punya masa depan masing-masing, punya cita-cita masing-masing yang harus dicapai. 28 juni 2009, dmna perpisahan pun tiba. mungkin kalian bisa ngerasain gmna sakitnya gue saat harus berpisah dengan orang2 yang selalu ada disaat gue susah ataupun senang, yang selalu bersama selama 6 taun, tiba2 harus dipisahkan dengan keadaan yang mengharuskan kita untuk pergi jauh, mencapai masa depan yang cerah.
ikhlas untuk menghadapi perpisahan itu...tapi kita punya motto yang takkan terlupakan yaitu "KITA RAIH SURGA BERSAMA" berharap kebersamaan dan kekluargaan kita yang sempat terpisahkan akan berkumpul kembali di tempat yang paling indah dan kekal abadi di dalamnya "SURGA"
ternyata apa yang gue pikirkan tentang pesantren ga seburuk fakta yang gue jalanin...dan memang benar semua akan indah pada waktunya..
berharap selamanya akan seperti ini. kebahagiaan akan datang menghampiri gue bersamanya. enam tahun berlalu (bukan waktu yang singkat) untuk menghabiskan waktu denganmu. bingung mau manyatakan apa lagi. post pertama memang sangat memilukan. (gak ada ide)
Susah senang gue rasain bersama, pasang surut rasa sayang dan cinta gue alami...banyak ujian menerpa..tapi gue tetep berusaha tegar..setegar karang yang diterpa oleh ombak...sulit memang,,tapi gue yakin semua bakal bebalas dengan kebahagiaan....
aku berharap a bisa jadi pelabuhan terakhir aku...karna aku yakin a cinta sejati aku...
TRUE LOVE NEVER GROWS OLD OLD LOVE DOESN'T RUST......